To end the conflict can be used any means; The only mandatory criterion – for using these tools you should not be ashamed. * You must behave as though you are surrounded by important people for you and they look at you. In some families, spouses agreed to and in conflict situations, when about to pour abuse opposing the warning of another and includes a tape recorder: everything that is said to remain on the film. * How much vocabulary is correct! There are other means. For example, – Chinese revenge. There is a story about how an evil Chinese feudal deprived of a poor peasant in the home and property, and family. Then the farmer took his revenge and the lord – hanged himself in front of his window.
* Revenge, I think one of the most ridiculous and harmful superstitions, but in a good family option "Chinese Vengeance" is very out of place. For example, my wife is reading in the dark, and so spoil his poor eyesight (in this case agrees that she wrong, but over and over again …) – well, I'm depriving myself reading. For me it is – the flour. Or Alex ran over a bicycle Alla, hurt her, she yells at him ("Why do not you look ?!), beats words. I want to hit her. It is impossible, but how to stop it? For each of its impact was severely beaten Shurik (really hard!) on the arm itself … It worked, she stopped.
– Interruption of relations up to the complete neglect of another. Termination of the relationship does not mean that they break, always possible negotiations. Relations can be resumed at any time, as soon as the other spouse will stop conflicting behavior and begin to live with respect for the other. Naturally, the children suffer from the break-up should not. In this part of the relationship is not broken, but only reduced to a purely formal and collaborative, at the level of impersonal cooperation. She was the favorite, but was just a woman with whom I, as with any, just polite, but do not show it either interest or warmth. Love – turn off. * To have good relations under heavy guard, one must know how sometimes love is not loved. – Demonstrative mirror. After warning his start acting the same methods at the same time suggesting a disgrace to stop – one. Means effective, but dangerous! Problematic behavior and forms of protest against the conflict – is a complex and big topic, and to thoroughly understand it, of course, not Simple enough for reading. Especially for those who want to learn to live without conflict and skillfully deal with any complex issues of communication in the heart of practical psychology, "Sinton" We have created a great course – "Basic training: mastery of communication."